The Low Down on Going Down: How to Give a Gay Blow Job
We’ve all been there. Things are getting hot and heavy between you and your guy and he slowly moves down south. Your muscles tighten, your balls restrict in excitement and anticipation, and your breath becomes shallow. This is gonna be fucking awesome.
That is until he starts licking your dick like a sleepy lap dog. He can’t find a good rhythm, he’s not using his tongue at all, and clearly has no idea what he’s doing. Wait! Don’t throw in the towel just yet. Maybe your clueless comrade just needs a little guidance. A little direction and advice on how to give a gay blowjob.
That’s where we come in (pun intended). This gay blowjob guide will give your guy all the tools and advice he needs to knock your socks off and wow your cock the next time he decides to go downtown.
Grab your dental floss (pubes happen), and let’s get down and dirty with how to go down on your man.
Knowing How to Give a Gay Blowjob is About More Than Just Sucking Dick
That’s right. Even though every good blow job starts with plenty of licking and sucking and ends with an explosive orgasm, a lot happens in between. The best gay blowjob tip is to use all parts of your body including your eyes, hands, tongue, and lips. You also want to explore all of his nether regions from the tip of his cock to his balls, perineum, and sweet, tender asshole. The more senses you hit on, the more intense the experience for you both.
Eye Contact is HOT
All too often guys close their eyes when giving head. They get into a zone and block out the world around them -- including their partner. This is a major blowjob no-no. One gay blowjob technique to try is making constant eye contact with your partner as you stroke, suck, and lick his shaft. Look up from between his legs as you deepthroat him. If your eyes bulge out as you gag, even better!
Reading his facial expressions is the best way to figure out if he’s enjoying what you’re doing and how can you possibly do this if your eyes are slammed shut? If he’s staring at the ceiling in complete boredom it’s time to switch it up! If he’s staring down at you intensely, gripping your hair, and opening his mouth in a silent moan, rest assured you’re doing something right. There’s also just something undeniably hot about making eye contact with your man while his cock’s in your mouth. Nuff said.
And while you’re at it, use your hands. Reach up while looking at him and pinch or squeeze his nipples. Cup his ass beneath his body or grab his hips and go for a hands-free blowjob technique. Encourage him to thrust upward and go deeper by pulling his pelvis into your body and taking the entire length of his cock. This is a great blowjob technique for gently licking his balls at the same time.
Speaking of balls...
Pay Attention to His Balls...
No, they’re not just ornamental. Your guy’s balls are there for a reason -- they want to be caressed, tugged, sucked, and fondled. If you’re not including your man’s nuts in your oral sex regime, you’re missing out -- and he likely is too! Testicles are packed with feel-good nerve endings that are designed for sexual stimulation.
Start off gently by tickling or cradling his balls. Now, gauge his reaction. Is he moaning and thrusting his hips upward? If so, he likes what you’re doing and wants more. Try giving them a firm but gentle tug. Don’t squeeze too hard unless you know for certain your guy likes it rough. As sexually satisfying as testicles are, they’re also very sensitive. Going too hard too fast could actually hurt him (and kill his boner). When you’re ready, get in there with your mouth. Gently suck each of his balls into your mouth, one at a time. Run your tongue from the head of his cock down to the base and keep going. Lick, kiss, and suck his balls. If he seems pleased (and you’ll know it if he is), don’t stop there...
… And Beyond
The ultimately gay blowjob includes venturing into uncharted waters. While you and your man might love anal sex, have you ever given him a rim job? Similar to his cock and balls, his asshole is packed with electrifying nerve endings that feel amazing when stimulated. Move down from licking his balls to pressing your tongue to his perineum (the spot between his scrotum and his asshole). If he’s fresh and clean and you’re feeling adventurous, use the tip of your tongue to stimulate his anus. At the same time, use your hand to continue jerking off his shaft. Another alternative is to penetrate him digitally while your mouth stays up near his balls and cock.
Your Tongue is a More Powerful Tool Than You Realize
You already know that your tongue is the star of the show when knowing how to give a gay blowjob. And if you didn’t know, that’s part of the problem. Your tongue is a powerful muscle capable of delivering body-shaking sensations that will drive your man crazy!
Now, a little anatomy lesson. There are four basic parts of your tongue:
- The tip
- The flat top
- The edge
- The underside
All four of these areas are important when perfecting your gay blowjob technique. Each surface feels different and can offer different sensations for your guy. In fact, a simple change in the stiffness, angle, and shape of your tongue can enhance the entire experience. Swirl your tongue around the tip of your man’s head. Run your tongue up the length of his shaft using all four surfaces. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different techniques, pressure, and speeds. Your guy’s body language will let you know what he likes best.
Suck It Up
They don’t call it sucking cock for nothing! Like with most gay blowjob techniques, it’s all about experimentation and variation. Try different levels of suction on different parts of his body. Suck the tip firmly before gliding down his shaft, sucking with different amounts of pressure. For most guys (and most sex acts, really), it’s all about the build-up. Start slow and soft. The harder your guy becomes, the harder you can suck.
This method actually increased blood flow to the penis, adding extra oxygen and sensitivity to his nether regions. Switch between firm sucking and gentle licking. Sucking also gives your tired tongue a break. The combination of different sensations will keep him guessing and his body on the edge of pleasure until he erupts (preferably in your mouth).
Work on Your Gag Reflex
Whether or not you want to admit it, the sound of you choking on your guy’s cock is just plain hot. Of course, they probably don’t want to choke you to the point of vomiting (or maybe they do), but seeing you gag on their tool gives them a bit of a confidence boost. Even if your guy isn’t huge and you just have a sensitive gag reflex, he doesn’t need to know that!
As hot as it is, you also don’t want to be gagging through the entire thing. After a while, it’ll take away from his pleasure and your ability to try some of the other gay blowjob techniques we mentioned earlier. To avoid this, practice controlling your gag reflex. Use dildos of various sizes to train your throat muscles not to freak out every time it encounters a thick dick.
Bring On the Toys
Sex toys are just plain awesome and they play two important roles in learning how to give a gay blow job. First, they take the pressure off of you by adding vibrations, patterns, and power that the human body just simply can’t provide. But the reason we like best is that they make al already amazing blowjob even better. Butt plugs, anal beads, and prostate massagers give your man anal stimulation and penetration while you go to work on his throbbing cock. Sex toys are the spice of life and can bring an entirely new level of pleasure to your oral sex arsenal.
Now You Know How to Give a Gay Blow Job so Get to Work!
There, you have it. Some of the best gay blowjob techniques that’ll leave your man moaning, shaking, and spewing his come all over your face (or down your throat). When it comes to giving a great blowjob, it’s all about variety. Don’t be afraid to use all of these gay blowjob tips and techniques during your next oral escapade.
