Does a no-hands orgasm sound too good to be true? Can you really ejaculate without ever touching yourself?
Let’s start by acknowledging how good it is for both your mind and body to climax. That’s right - the more you cum, the happier and healthier you are. In fact, men who regularly ejaculate are less likely to develop prostate cancer. Not to mention that pep in your step after having an awesome sex session followed by an intense orgasm. For most guys, their orgasm comes from self-satisfaction. (Yes, we’re talking about masturbating. Yanking the chain. Choking the chicken. Beating off. Whatever fun name you give it.) It feels so good that most men take care of business 21 times per month. For some, that’s in addition to other sexcapades.
Is your masturbation routine getting old or boring? Are you tired of the same old lube, porn, or pocket pussy? What if we told you that you could cum handsfree with a little patience, technique, and practice? Let’s explore your hidden talent and tips for experiencing hands-free ejaculation.
Different Ways to Cum Hands-Free
The best part of no-hands ejaculation is that there are several methods and ways to do it. From prostate orgasms involving toys and plenty of lube to muscle control and meditation, you can harness your sexual energy to not only get hard but bring yourself to the edge and beyond.
The most popular ways to achieve a male hands-free orgasm are:
- Muscle control and contraction
- Meditation
- Prostate stimulation
All of these techniques are unique and take plenty of practice to achieve. The good news is, you won’t mind putting in the time and effort when the reward is so, well, rewarding! Getting to know your body is step number one. Regardless of which hands-free approach you take, the more you know about how your body works and reacts to different stimulates, the more successful you’ll be at hands-free ejaculation.
Let’s take a closer look at each technique and what it takes to achieve no-hands ejaculation.
Muscle Control
No, we aren’t talking about flexing your biceps at the gym. Did you know that Kegel exercises aren’t just for the ladies? Your penis and entire pelvic region are packed with strong muscles that, when strengthened and worked the right way, can help you unlock pleasure you never knew existed.
Some men can achieve no-hands orgasms by flexing their PC - pubococcygeus muscle. Both men and women have this hammock-like muscle that stretches from the tail bone to the pubic bone. This area is also known as the pelvic floor and is responsible for supporting your oh-so-important, feel-good organs. Some guys are blessed with the ability to flex and contract two glans of the penis - the corona and the frenulum - enough to actually make their penis twitch and explode in a hands-free orgasm. Lucky bastards. Just like women who can squirt, not every man is capable of this type of orgasm.
So, how do you know if you have this special gift? Performing Kegel exercises is a quick way to find out. Yes, guys, you have Kegel muscles too! Instead of tightening your inner vaginal wall, these muscles control the movement of your penis. One way to practice this muscle control is to try peeing (standing in front of the toilet, of course) and then stopping. Your ability to control the flow of urine is actually your PC muscles at work. Now try tightening and holding these muscles for 5-10 seconds, then relax. Perform this exercise 10-20 times at least 3 times per week. Add to your pleasure by clenching and releasing your anal muscles as well. Before you know it, you’ll be controlling more than just your urine flow!
Erotic Meditation
Speaking of breathing, meditation helps you control both your breathing and your mind-body connection. For those guys that think meditation is lame, think again. Certain forms can actually help you harness your inner arousal resulting in hands-free ejaculation. Many principles of erotic meditation are the same as traditional meditation. It’s about quieting your mind and connecting with your body. Controlling your thoughts is almost as powerful as controlling your muscles. Here are a few simple techniques to try.
- Find a quiet place, free from distractions. Since the ultimate goal is learning how to cum hands-free, privacy is a must.
- Get comfortable. How do you feel sexiest? Maybe it’s being naked or wearing a sexy jockstrap. You can sit or lay down. Try the floor, bed, or a cushion. Experiment with different positions until you feel free and unrestricted.
- Close your eyes and clear your mind of any outside thoughts. Erotic meditation takes 100% focus. You need to be present in the moment and aware of how your body is feeling and responding.
- Focus on your breathing. Take notice of how the air is entering and exiting. Relax your muscles (yes, even your PC). Do a body scan. What feels good? Are your nipples hard? Do you have an erection? Are your balls tight or swollen? Simply thinking about your body in a new, more focused way is highly erotic.
- Now visualize your body reacting to both internal and external stimulation. Think about how your cock looks flaccid against your leg or hard and strong against your belly. Also, try to picture your body’s energy. Is it warm and aroused? Or dark, strong, and in control? Try to avoid fantasizing about other people or sex acts. Remember, this is about you connecting with your body and getting off without the help of anyone else -including in your fantasies.
Not everyone can cum hands-free using this technique. It takes a lot of practice and requires you to be in-tune with your body, mind, and needs. The good news is, even if you fail to achieve a no-hands orgasm, erotic meditation will help you connect better to your body and learn to arouse yourself in new and different ways. This can come in handy (literally) later on.
Prostate Stimulation
These first two techniques for achieving hands-free ejaculation have a lot to do with control - both mind and body. This last method lets you experience true, physical pleasure but not in the way you’re used to. While your penis is hyper-sensitive and covered in feel-good nerve endings, it’s not your only source of sexual satisfaction. Introduce the prostate gland.
This awesome sex gland doesn’t always get enough credit. The walnut-sized gland located just a few inches inside your ass does more than just produce semen. It’s also responsible for that explosive rush of euphoria you feel when you cum. Your average orgasm comes from a combination of blood flow, nerve endings, muscle contraction, and external stimulation (stroking it during masturbation). But a prostate (or P-spot) orgasm is something entirely different and is the secret to having a male hands-free orgasm while still stimulating yourself physically.
We already know that understanding your body and how it works helps tap into hidden pleasures and erogenous zones. Stimulating the prostate is no different. The more you know and the more you practice, the more likely you are to achieve the epitome of pleasure without ever touching your cock. We could write an entire article on prostate massage alone (oh, wait, we did), but here’s the short and sweet version.
- Start by finding your prostate gland. Your best bet is to either lay on your back or get on all fours. Have plenty of lube on hand and start exploring. Yes, we realize that we’re supposed to be talking about hands-free orgasms HOWEVER before you can achieve a no-hands orgasm by stimulating your prostate, you need to know where it is and how it works.
Pro tip: If you’re more than a few knuckles deep, you’re too far. Back your finger out and use the pad to press upward toward your pelvis. The gland feels like a walnut. When you apply a little pressure, you may feel a sudden urge to urinate. Don’t worry, you (probably) won’t, but you did successfully locate your P-spot.
- Have a little fun poking around, rubbing, and pressing on the gland. Chances are, you’ll see a positive response from your cock. Most men can achieve an erection simply from touching their prostate gland. Try rocking back and forth on your finger or adding a second or third digit. Just keep in mind that a little goes a long way when it comes to prostate play.
- Now, armed with this knowledge, you probably want to know how to cum hands-free. You’ll need a prostate massager or a willing partner. Since we’re focusing on achieving a no-hands orgasm on your own, let’s talk about massagers and masturbating. Find a prostate massager you’re comfortable with or a small, smooth dildo. Avoid realistic toys that have too many edges or details (at least for now). Grab your lube and get into a comfortable position. A lot of prostate massagers are designed to be inserted and held in place by your sphincter muscle. Once in place, simply rock, wiggle, and grind your way to a powerful, hands-free eruption!
Some guys describe prostate orgasms as some of the most intense and long-lasting. That alone is an incentive for exploring your anatomy and learning how to stimulate this erogenous zone all by yourself. Then you can share your findings with your partner. Barebacking and gay breeding are common methods for achieving hands-free orgasms as a bottom. Pegging can also help straight guys join in on the fun!
Explore Ways to Cum Hands-Free
There you have it - three techniques that help you control your own sexual pleasure without ever touching your magic stick. From meditation and muscle control to backdoor play and stimulation, there’s more than one way to blow your load alone. Now, the fun begins as your practice and explore these techniques on your journey toward hands-free ejaculation. Happy travels!