Cum Play: What It Is and How to Do It Safely
Coming. It’s the ultimate end game for any sexual encounter. We all want a happy ending that leaves us feeling completely content and sexually satisfied. Coming is the culmination of lots of foreplay, licking, sucking, penetrating, and whatever other naughty sex acts you’re into. But who said that ejaculating had to be the end of your sexual fun?
Cum play is a popular practice among gay and bisexual men (and some women who enjoy a good gangbang once in a while). Cum play goes far beyond the debate of whether to spit or swallow. This kinky fetish involves having your partner come somewhere on your body or inside of you, but instead of reaching for the tissues right away, you take time to feel, taste, and share the load. As with any sex act involving bodily fluids, some express concern over the safety of cum play. Here we’ll take a deeper look at forms of cum play, safety tips, and how to get the most out of your next naughty, sticky situation.
What is Cum Play?
Cum play focuses on ejaculating “on” your partner vs. “in”. There’s just something hot (and a little raunchy) about blowing a load on your partner’s face, beard, chest, tongue, or in their mouth. The most popular form of cum play is known as bukkake and involves multiple people ejaculating on one person’s face.
Whether you’re the giver or receiver of the hot load, there are a few things to keep in mind.
- Avoid getting semen in your eyes (yes, it stings and technically, is “in” your body and could pose potential health risks)
- Have good aim (as we’ve all probably learned at one time or another, cum is a bitch to get out of your sheets and, black light or not, is an instantly recognizable stain)
- Semen is actually good for you (A person’s load contains only about 10% sperm. The rest is made up of vitamins C and B12, zinc, calcium, potassium, fructose, and magnesium. Swallowing a load will only cost you 20 calories and boasts as much protein as an egg white. Apparently, cum does a body good.)
If you do accidentally get cum in your mouth and this isn’t your thing, avoid spitting profusely or gagging. Not only is this rude but it could crush your partner’s self-esteem. Even with your eyes tightly shut, some ejaculate could seep inside. Your eyes may naturally tear to flush themselves out. If not, take some warm water and rinse until the stinging subsides.
What Makes Cum Play Appealing?
Like any sexual fetish, some people are simply turned on by cum play without any rhyme or reason. Others openly relish in the taste, feel, smell, and texture of jizz. There’s something intimate about accepting your partner’s load. After all, it’s a symbol of their desire and sexual attraction. Happily receiving your partner’s load is just one way to show them that you’re really into them.
Types of Cum Play
We already mentioned that bukkake is one of the most popular forms of cum play, but it’s not the only one. There are plenty more fun and kinky ways to explore and experiment with cum.
The first rule of thumb is to find out what your partner’s into. Some guys don’t mind swallowing while others prefer you to deliver your load elsewhere. Instead of surprising them (and being surprised when they spew your hot cum back in your pretty little face), find out if they’re willing to take in all of you. If they are, you may want to take things one step further and experiment with snowballing. This involves taking your man’s cum into your mouth and then passing it into their mouth through kissing or spitting. In a group setting, you can share multiple loads with multiple people. Say “Ah”!
For guys not into swallowing or even having jizz directly deposited into their mouth, try coming around their lips, in their beard, or even on their chest. Then (if you’re both into), spread it around, lick it off of them yourself, or use it as a thick, creamy lube for other fun sex acts.
Last on our list of cum play fun is actually ejaculating inside your guy’s ass. There are a few things to consider here but safety tops the list. You should always use a condom with anal sex of any kind. While we’ll get more into safe cum play and safe sex in a minute, if you know your partner’s sexual history and have both been tested for STDs, you can safely explore barebacking.
Now, onto the fun stuff. Taking loads is the act of, well, taking one or multiple loads inside your body (usually anally). Felching takes things one step further and involves coming in your partner’s ass and then licking or sucking it out with your mouth.
Sex is just more fun when it’s a little dirty, somewhat raunchy, and a lot naughty! Cum play is just one way to explore and enjoy every part of your guy in new and different ways.
Tips for Safe Cum Play
As fun as cum play is, sex of any kind comes with its own set of health risks. This is especially true when discussing anal sex. Why? Well, let’s face it, an anal canal is a dirty place, filled with bacteria. The lining of the rectum is also extremely thin and not exactly meant for stretching. When it is pushed to the max (fun!), there’s the potential for tearing. This creates openings for other outside germs and infections to enter the body.
The good news is (yes, there’s good news), once cum hits the open air, most HIV germs die instantly. Other STDs, however (like herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea), hang around for quite a while and could infect your partner. More good news, though! If you have a steady sexual partner or are engaging in group sex and everyone has been tested recently for STDS, you can safely explore every hole, crevice, and cum play scenario without worry.
Keep An Open Mind (and Open Mouth)
There are various forms of cum play from snowballing and felching to bukkake, which is why it appeals to people of all sexual preferences and experience levels. Remember, cum play (like all sex acts) is meant to be fun! If you’re not into something, let your partner know. Tell them how you prefer to accept their load (down your throat, in your ass, on your face). Chances are, as long as they’re coming, they won’t mind fulfilling your request.
Just remember to always practice safe sex. Not only is it important for your own health, but when you know that everyone involved is healthy, you can confidently let down your guard (and your pants) for uninhibited, raunchy, and completely open sex.
